I am a bilingual person, and I am having a bit of problems with the definitions people use for native speakers. (Also in relation why it is good to include native as some sort of super category of language skill in general). Because as far as I can tell many of the definitions do not apply to me, therefore a bit depending on who you ask I either have 2 native languages or none. But almost certainly i am not also a 2nd language learner.
Would asking for a robust definition, be acceptable. Or am i reading the tour correctly to surmise that its not on topic and or too chatty. If so would there be a batter forum to ask.